Making Amends

I step out of my house and i hear a lot of heart touching stories. people are screaming to be loved some even pay for it while others remain in a horrible situation because they want to be loved and feel loved. As humans we are not in control of our emotions sometimes so we tend to run out of our way on our quest to find love. Love cannot be paid for and can only come out freely, listen whatsoever you force or pretend about, you will always have to lie or pretend about it until you run out option. First thing first, Love yourself. this is the key ingredient (like maggi) that you need for others to love you. Take out time to pamper yourself, give your self the attention it needs. Treat your self like no one can and most of all, pamper yourself.  You want your husband or partner to love you? love yourself first. To command respect you must first respect yourself as an individual before others can respect you like they say and i quote'' you cannot give what you don't have&

There are so many things that i can do for myself, which doesn't necessarily mean me bothering anyone to do for me! Over dependence on people will not get me anywhere so i decided to take the bull by its horn.... read these top 10 things that i can do for my beautiful self..... 1. I can laugh:- I don't need anyone to do this for me.. laughter cleanses the soul so why not? 2. I can decide: - Knowing the kind of life i lead and how i want it to go hasn't been easy but i do decide what i want and how i want it. Life is all about how you perceive it.... 3. I can think: - I can think things through my self! make my decisions and decide for me... 4. I can pick myself up: - You know how Things are na, when you are down you psychologically need someone to lean on, but on the leaning aspect i do know when to pick myself up and say '' its not over yet" 5. I can frown: - Okay this one goes for everyone. some people just know how to get on your last nerves! fro