Signs That Show That Your Relationship Is Heading For The Gallow

So many people say Love doesnt last long this days due to so many factors they have considered reasons. you see a lady that has a well to do Man but still choooses to deceives him and a man that has the most amazing woman but still play games.

PLS TO ALL THAT WANT TO CRITICIZE THIS YOUNG LAD, PLEASE READ THROUGH BEFORE YOU START JUDGING ME..... GRACIA!

These are basically my own little put together signs as i stand to be corrected, ok lets go!

1. Your partner cant accept you for who you are
I don't know what to call this but dis days we find a lot of people in relationships that they are not really proud of. one would think since you are in a relationship you should be able to present your partner boldly wherever you are, but this aint so...We all have our positive and negative sides and a good partner should be able to accept you for who you really are.

2.You cant accept your partner for who they are
Accepting each other works in both ways. ifthre are things your partner is doing that you really dont like, now is a good time to start talking about them before it gets out of control.

3.You needs are not met by your partnerPlease always know at the back of your mind that your partner isn't God thereby isn't perfect.But they should be able to meet a decent part of your needs, but don't be over demanding of them. your spouse or partner should be able to cheer you up when you are down or sad, provide you with affection but u don't have ti be too clingy.

4.Struggling to handle difficult situations together
Relationships aren't always rosy, don't go believing what you see in the movies. of course your partner is in a better and lighter mood when they are happy but the big question is do you feel same when they are angry or cant solve a difficult problem. relationship is all about communication and intimacy, helping each other, that's why the bible calls us Helpmates! that problem cant kill you so why let it get in between you? put heads together and weather the storm, if you cant do this it is a sign your relationship wont last long and even if it does it would just be two sets of people struggling to make an appearance.

5.You both are not on the same path
If you are already thinking about getting married, having kids, and building a home together but your partner isn't on that page with you the there is a big problem. the two parties have to be on the same path, you two have to be mentally and psychologically thinking on a straight line. if you notice your partner doesn't want what you want then its time to set the agenda straight. its not compulsory that they have to want want you want neither is it their fault they are not thinking the way you are but you still need to work on it

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