Dont Judge My Story

 Things That Inspire Me To Write.........

     So you think we are close and you know me or we just became a little bit close and you are getting all the 411 about me and my life and all of a sudden you feel you have the pass to judge me? My life, attitude,inspiration,discretion,opinions are not for you to scrutinize. my beliefs,convictions,and  spirituality are not also yours to bully.
A lot of time we do not hold back in telling people the Truth and how nice they can correct a wrong while we ignore our own adversaries and shortcomings. Don't get me wrong am not saying we cannot give healthy advice but in the process of giving advice lets not come out being judgmental and self-righteous.  We can argue,exchange words in the cause of an argument or discussion gone bad that doesn't give you the right to be my judge.
   I have a human nature, hello?am human! Am not perfect, am not sanctimonious and i cant please everyone at the same time. on the other hand you are chatting with a new contact on your Bbm and the fellow and you have come a long way, like you two have become close to the point of knowing little things about you, so on this day while chatting, a little hiccup comes up and the fellow says something that on a normal day hw/she doesn't have the right to, and you are like, DON'T JUDGE ME!
 Life is all about perception and how perceptive and receptive  we can all be. Look at things differently and try as much as you can to put yourself in peoples shoes before you say anything.
   A word goes that says you know my story but you don't know the truth behind my story. As much as you think you want to help and pass out your idea do it lovingly, don't come out like you are perfect and have it all, even if you are *rugged* in dealing with issues, remember that its not all issues that require ruggedity ( mine).

Take it as a privilege that you have an idea of what a person's life look like. When you have the opportunity to know a person exclusively, don't take it for granted, don't abuse it, don't trample on it. And if you think a person is wrong about a particular issue, look for a perfect time to talk about it without being mean or judgmental. Correction is another topic we talk about on another subject.........