What Type of Woman Are You?

Black women
When he(God)  created them, he made them male(Alpha ego) and female( out of his ribs). Taking a stroll back to the story of mankind's creation, we read in the book of Genesis where it all began, the story of how man was formed from dust and was made to sleep and the woman created from a part of him which explains --- Woman(meaning from Man).

The woman although formed from the man's ribs is distinctly different in every way from the man, thus it is safe to say they both operate under different mandates.

As a young woman hoping to get married some day and start my own family away from my family, I have overtime come to realize the need to  discover myself and groom myself into someone marri-able. This is because you need to realize yourself. You need to discover your talents, weak points, strength and so forth. You need to discover the woman you are before the world discovers you....simple

You are a female, yes. You are a woman, we believe. But what kind of woman are you? Are you resilient?, soft spoken? Are you a goal getter? Self dependent? A dreamer? Are you a builder? Can a project be in your care without your employer flinching at any given point? Are you confident enough to discover your God given talent isn't a mistake? Have you discovered your talents and where you are good at? What motivates you everyday? What do you see in your mind's eye about you? You need to start this journey of self discovery and acceptance soon before the world does.
Knowing the woman you are and have been created to be will go a long way in shaping you up. It will boost your self confidence. It will help you relate with people well. You become more aligned to the wants and needs of people around you. So many people will want to be seen with you or associate with you, remember what the Bible says about a good name in the book of Proverbs? It's better than riches!

A cross look at this topic in another angle, what type of woman are you? A husband beater? Molester? Fighter? A home breaker? Are you a destroyer? Are you prone to waste without seeing it as a big deal? A husband snatcher? Do people( especially men) get scared of you? Are you without a future or plan yet you seek to milk out money from different men for your satisfaction, not minding what you have to do?

You need to realize life is worth more sweeter when you begin to realize yourself. When you start becoming someone worthy of emulation. A woman of substance.
To married women, what type of a woman did your husband marry? Are you still that woman? Do your husband thank God for you? Or you nag him to sleep? Are you one that your husband holds and seek opinion and advice from? Does your husband trust you? To all the single ladies, what type of woman are you grooming yourself to be? What type of woman will your future husband meet?

See, the type of person you are as a woman transcends to how well you will be treated. They say if you do not know the use of a thing, abuse is inevitable right? Well, I still have to add to that saying, for abuse not to be inevitable, define who you are. When people know the type of our son you are, it gives then better understanding to relating with you as the manufacturer( God) has planned it for your life.

And above all, what type of woman is our Lord Jesus coming to?
Stay you. Positive. Original. Strong.
Remember I love you all and you are always in my prayers....


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