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Signs That Show That Your Relationship Is Heading For The Gallow

So many people say Love doesnt last long this days due to so many factors they have considered reasons. you see a lady that has a well to do Man but still choooses to deceives him and a man that has the most amazing woman but still play games. PLS TO ALL THAT WANT TO CRITICIZE THIS YOUNG LAD, PLEASE READ THROUGH BEFORE YOU START JUDGING ME..... GRACIA! These are basically my own little put together signs as i stand to be corrected, ok lets go! 1. Your partner cant accept you for who you are I don't know what to call this but dis days we find a lot of people in relationships that they are not really proud of. one would think since you are in a relationship you should be able to present your partner boldly wherever you are, but this aint so...We all have our positive and negative sides and a good partner should be able to accept you for who you really are. 2.You cant accept your partner for who they are Accepting each other works in both ways. ifthre are things your partner ...

caitlyn Jenner and other Transgender Women Are Not ‘Real Women’ by Germaine Greer

The popular feminist, Germaine Greer, the second-wave feminist best known for her 1970 book The Female Eunuch, accused Caitlyn Jenner of “stealing the limelight” from the other women of the Kardashian clan in an appearance on BBC2’s Newsnight. In the course of the interview, Greer said that “misogyny played a big part” in Glamour magazine’s decision to award Jenner their woman of the year award. She also defended previous statements in which she claimed that trans women were not “real women.” Via The Guardian: “She also refused to back down from her position that transgender women, who have begun life as men before undergoing surgery and hormone treatment to become women, are ‘not women,’ saying they do not ‘look like, sound like or behave like women’.” Greer’s statements prompted a petition circulated by Cardiff University students. The petition, aimed at having Greer barred from giving a speech on campus, was started by Rachael Melhuish, women’s officer at the Cardiff U...

After Independence..... What Next?

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So a lot of people have been talking about the pre and post- independence celebration, so i decided to talk about it in my own way and hopefully get you all to share or air your view so we all can learn from our past and history.... Although Nigeria was the creation of European ambitions and rivalries, its peoples had their cherished history of freedom and independence before the arrival of the British. ..... 55 years after freedom from the British colonial leadership, what have we achieved? what have we done wrong? what are we still yet to put right? with the new sets of leadership and Surgical Transformation our country is experiencing i think it is safe for me to say with a clear mind that better days are marching forth! So we had our big day yesterday Thursday 01 2015 as another celebration of our 1960 independence and after the celebration, what is next? we cant go slow or certainly stop here because to us we have achieved some little mind blowing projects, No, we...

All That We Are Is A Thought Of Who We Are

  Excerpt From My Book..... Be Inspired! Looking back at all that we have been through, sober reflections teach us that we are a reflection of what we say or think we are. Ironically, we may have come across a lot of books authored and co- authored by a lot of great mind who have talked about this same topic, I am going to break it down in another method, hopefully, you will have a different perception of who you really are.                                        WHO DO YOU SAY YOU ARE? Above all perception of you that any other person has of you, you know yourself a lot better.   Surprisingly, some people don’t really know themselves. Let’s take for example, if I am christened with a particular name and it’s not known to me I won’t be able to answer to it without grasp...

All About MAKING AMENDS blog

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I grew up in an environment where all that was taught was all about family and how closely knighted family bound can be. Back in Tigbegbe( agbado ijaiye) area where the famous Ijaiye Ojokoro High School then had its glory..... i dont really know whats happening in that area again because we moved out long time ago!. it was all about not having enough, my parent were hard working people and they always made sure i and my older siblings had all we wanted, even if its not enough.    I attended Agbado ijaiye primary school, half way through primary school there my school was changed to Immaculate Grace Junior School (IMMAGRAJUS), while i was at Agbado Ijaiye school , i remember that some days i wud run home even when it wasn't closing period...lol.I think that kind of set me back cos i finished primary and high school rather late for my age. but in all i give thanks to God cos today i am a 300 level student of the National Open University Of Nigeria studying Mass Communication...

WE ARE WHO WE ARE BY OUR THOUGHTS

Yeah, i know so many times we have heard a lot of people say this to us or to someone we know{ family, friends, foes} even to strangers. but on those occasions, how many times have we really thought about that phrase? permit me, shey its a phrase..... lolz. moving straight away from the phrase palava, our thoughts define and shapes us into the reality of what we call DESTINY!         Ironically, most people do not have the slightest inkling to who they really are, thereby not grasping their Destiny. Our thoughts, imagination, vision define our personality thereby carving out our personality... your personality speaks a lot of who you are and its thanks to our thoughts for this, not only do you build great personality, you also take charge and be the boss you are meant to be.  .....When you are alone what do you think about?, what do you see with you ultra inner eyes? in the midst of tough situations what does your mind tell you?..... you canno...

5 TIPS ON HOW TO LOVE PEOPLE

5 TIPS ON HOW TO LOVE PEOPLE Hello, i am here again and today i ll be discussing my 5 tips on how to love people!    Lot of times its not easy to accept people into our hearts but with these 5 tips am sure you can see things through a different direction. 1 . First love yourself the number one key in loving other people is you having the ability to love your self. how can you love a stranger if u don't love yourself. This helps you to build relationships and maintain them. 2. Acceptance is key yea alot of time we find it difficult accepting people and their flaws but i tell you this is a great step if u want them in your life. acceptance is key irrespective of their races, status or background.... 3 . Beauty to ashes acceptance like i said is key, after accepting a person's flaws it becomes somehow you priority to mold and help them become a better person, someone you will one to be associated with, represented by and communicate with. You know that beautiful feeli...