Making Amends

 Things That Inspire Me To Write.........      So you think we are close and you know me or we just became a little bit close and you are getting all the 411 about me and my life and all of a sudden you feel you have the pass to judge me? My life, attitude,inspiration,discretion,opinions are not for you to scrutinize. my beliefs,convictions,and  spirituality are not also yours to bully. A lot of time we do not hold back in telling people the Truth and how nice they can correct a wrong while we ignore our own adversaries and shortcomings. Don't get me wrong am not saying we cannot give healthy advice but in the process of giving advice lets not come out being judgmental and self-righteous.  We can argue,exchange words in the cause of an argument or discussion gone bad that doesn't give you the right to be my judge.    I have a human nature, hello?am human! Am not perfect, am not sanctimonious and i cant please everyone at the same time. on the other hand you are chatting w

Of course! Like they say that experience is the best teacher and if you do not learn from your past experiences that you are a fool, i do concur.      Life has taught me how hard it can hit me and how harsh its coldness feels. I have come to learn the fact that if you do not tutor yourself someone somewhere will teach you to learn from theirs. Though i may be open to new ideas and opinions i have still learnt a lot. Experience is indeed the best teacher, teaches you to use your failure as a fuel to succeed or remain on your butt. Different people with different life stories many which are sad to the ears and heart wrenching. Experience has taught me that i can always try again and again, start over if my pyramid crumbles, start on a fresh slate and get it better this time around. Trust is another aspect in which i can tap experience on the back for cos experience has taught me to select carefully who i choose to trust and open the doors of my heart to. So many fake people with ma

Hello, i thought I'd share this with you all. This is basically a pictorial DIY( Do It Yourself) on how to get rid of blackheads..... Follow instruction on the picture for better result.   Remember to drop you comments if helpful also follow me on my twitter handle @elice4sure and my BBMC C002ED5EA, lets meet over there too! peace!!!

Happy new month to all who has taken time to support me, stayed with me, tried to understand me and especially to my wonderful family. Let me start by saying i was so discouraged and almost blank last year(2014) that i saw nothing exciting about the coming year(2015) i only mere went through the Christmas eve like a traditional ceremony, posing for the camera with my not so close-up set of teeth!... but in all i thank God... i wont bore you with my woes... I was sharing with my subs on my BBMC today about a discussion i had with a close friend and all i kept hearing was complains on complains, no comma or stop to thank God for the outgoing year. I know the year hasn't been so rosy for some people but to some other its the best. Take a moment and soak yourself in the wealth you have which includes life, shelter. awareness, food, water, security, you are not dead, you do not have any reason to mourn, a lot of people around the globe has lost one loved one or another. Some have los

I step out of my house and i hear a lot of heart touching stories. people are screaming to be loved some even pay for it while others remain in a horrible situation because they want to be loved and feel loved. As humans we are not in control of our emotions sometimes so we tend to run out of our way on our quest to find love. Love cannot be paid for and can only come out freely, listen whatsoever you force or pretend about, you will always have to lie or pretend about it until you run out option. First thing first, Love yourself. this is the key ingredient (like maggi) that you need for others to love you. Take out time to pamper yourself, give your self the attention it needs. Treat your self like no one can and most of all, pamper yourself.  You want your husband or partner to love you? love yourself first. To command respect you must first respect yourself as an individual before others can respect you like they say and i quote'' you cannot give what you don't have&

There are so many things that i can do for myself, which doesn't necessarily mean me bothering anyone to do for me! Over dependence on people will not get me anywhere so i decided to take the bull by its horn.... read these top 10 things that i can do for my beautiful self..... 1. I can laugh:- I don't need anyone to do this for me.. laughter cleanses the soul so why not? 2. I can decide: - Knowing the kind of life i lead and how i want it to go hasn't been easy but i do decide what i want and how i want it. Life is all about how you perceive it.... 3. I can think: - I can think things through my self! make my decisions and decide for me... 4. I can pick myself up: - You know how Things are na, when you are down you psychologically need someone to lean on, but on the leaning aspect i do know when to pick myself up and say '' its not over yet" 5. I can frown: - Okay this one goes for everyone. some people just know how to get on your last nerves! fro

Have you ever wondered why it seems you trying too hard with little or no positive outcome? Do you think you are doing something wrong? Have you tried other means? Still same old issue? The answer is not far from you.     You have it all inside you! Am sure you are aware of this fact. But then you think you are not in total control of it? Let God open your mind so you can understand that all you need to prosper has been put inside you!.       The Will, Desire,Eagerness,thirst to birth an idea is in you. The courage to stand the test of time is all in you, your ability to look beyond your present level and envision yourself as the next big thing  to happen is embedded in you.God has given you all you need to change your world( Am not preaching), he has invested in you so much that you can decide either to use it or kill it.........Do not kill it.       You have the drive in you, you have the Will in you, you have the Desire in you, you have the ability to push yourself further , i

Our world is filled with lots and lots of competition and the most impressive fact is no one wants to be at the back end of socialisation(even me) eveybody is at the top of their games! So how are you dfferent at your game? its not just mere talk but how well you can pull off a staunt withhout breaking a leg or copying. You are different so do different things. When you think you going to flop, remember that no one has it like you do its alright to be unsure, anxious and scared but remember that you are in charge and that no one can do it better than you!

The Corporate Affairs Commission is a body of government saddled with the responsibility of Registering Business names in Nigeria and also issuance of certificate for business name( after successfully going through all the stages involved) The Corporate Affairs Commission was established in 1990 vide companies and allied matters Decree No1 (CAMD) 1990 AS AMENDED; IT IS NOW ON Act Cap C20 Laws of federation of Nigeria. It is also an autonomous body charged with the responsibility to regulate the formation and management of companies in Nigeria. The CAC carries out its functions through the accredited member of: 1.        Association of National Accountants of Nigeria. 2.        Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria 3.        Institute of chartered   Secretaries and Administration of Nigeria (ICSAN) 4.        National Bar Association (NBA)   The CAC is headed by a Registrar – General.                                                                    MEMERS

you know a lot of times for  we human, it is quite difficult for us to push ourselves so hard we reach our breaking point. Exploring your inner self has to do with you finding out who you are on the inside. Have you ever wondered what motivates you, inspires or even drives you? Take a moment and recall on your Purpose/Vision/Mission/Personal Drive/Goals/Beliefs. when you arrive at the answer then you can say you have a high  perception of who you truly are but if you can't arrive at any answer, now is never late to start.                                                                                 You Are More Than Your Roles you are more than the role you play in the society. you can be an employee in an organization working to achieve the dreams of that firm but that is totally different from who you are. you can build relationships, be a father, brother or a sister to someone you could even be a friend or a colleague but all theses are societal responsibility which does n

So many people say Love doesnt last long this days due to so many factors they have considered reasons. you see a lady that has a well to do Man but still choooses to deceives him and a man that has the most amazing woman but still play games. PLS TO ALL THAT WANT TO CRITICIZE THIS YOUNG LAD, PLEASE READ THROUGH BEFORE YOU START JUDGING ME..... GRACIA! These are basically my own little put together signs as i stand to be corrected, ok lets go! 1. Your partner cant accept you for who you are I don't know what to call this but dis days we find a lot of people in relationships that they are not really proud of. one would think since you are in a relationship you should be able to present your partner boldly wherever you are, but this aint so...We all have our positive and negative sides and a good partner should be able to accept you for who you really are. 2.You cant accept your partner for who they are Accepting each other works in both ways. ifthre are things your partner

The popular feminist, Germaine Greer, the second-wave feminist best known for her 1970 book The Female Eunuch, accused Caitlyn Jenner of “stealing the limelight” from the other women of the Kardashian clan in an appearance on BBC2’s Newsnight. In the course of the interview, Greer said that “misogyny played a big part” in Glamour magazine’s decision to award Jenner their woman of the year award. She also defended previous statements in which she claimed that trans women were not “real women.” Via The Guardian: “She also refused to back down from her position that transgender women, who have begun life as men before undergoing surgery and hormone treatment to become women, are ‘not women,’ saying they do not ‘look like, sound like or behave like women’.” Greer’s statements prompted a petition circulated by Cardiff University students. The petition, aimed at having Greer barred from giving a speech on campus, was started by Rachael Melhuish, women’s officer at the Cardiff University

So a lot of people have been talking about the pre and post- independence celebration, so i decided to talk about it in my own way and hopefully get you all to share or air your view so we all can learn from our past and history.... Although Nigeria was the creation of European ambitions and rivalries, its peoples had their cherished history of freedom and independence before the arrival of the British. ..... 55 years after freedom from the British colonial leadership, what have we achieved? what have we done wrong? what are we still yet to put right? with the new sets of leadership and Surgical Transformation our country is experiencing i think it is safe for me to say with a clear mind that better days are marching forth! So we had our big day yesterday Thursday 01 2015 as another celebration of our 1960 independence and after the celebration, what is next? we cant go slow or certainly stop here because to us we have achieved some little mind blowing projects, No, we

  Excerpt From My Book..... Be Inspired! Looking back at all that we have been through, sober reflections teach us that we are a reflection of what we say or think we are. Ironically, we may have come across a lot of books authored and co- authored by a lot of great mind who have talked about this same topic, I am going to break it down in another method, hopefully, you will have a different perception of who you really are.                                        WHO DO YOU SAY YOU ARE? Above all perception of you that any other person has of you, you know yourself a lot better.   Surprisingly, some people don’t really know themselves. Let’s take for example, if I am christened with a particular name and it’s not known to me I won’t be able to answer to it without grasping the full knowledge that that’s really my name!             Who are you? You know this question mostly comes up when you have a quarrel with a person or preferably an argument. But have you reall

I grew up in an environment where all that was taught was all about family and how closely knighted family bound can be. Back in Tigbegbe( agbado ijaiye) area where the famous Ijaiye Ojokoro High School then had its glory..... i dont really know whats happening in that area again because we moved out long time ago!. it was all about not having enough, my parent were hard working people and they always made sure i and my older siblings had all we wanted, even if its not enough.    I attended Agbado ijaiye primary school, half way through primary school there my school was changed to Immaculate Grace Junior School (IMMAGRAJUS), while i was at Agbado Ijaiye school , i remember that some days i wud run home even when it wasn't closing period...lol.I think that kind of set me back cos i finished primary and high school rather late for my age. but in all i give thanks to God cos today i am a 300 level student of the National Open University Of Nigeria studying Mass Communication, yaa

Yeah, i know so many times we have heard a lot of people say this to us or to someone we know{ family, friends, foes} even to strangers. but on those occasions, how many times have we really thought about that phrase? permit me, shey its a phrase..... lolz. moving straight away from the phrase palava, our thoughts define and shapes us into the reality of what we call DESTINY!         Ironically, most people do not have the slightest inkling to who they really are, thereby not grasping their Destiny. Our thoughts, imagination, vision define our personality thereby carving out our personality... your personality speaks a lot of who you are and its thanks to our thoughts for this, not only do you build great personality, you also take charge and be the boss you are meant to be.  .....When you are alone what do you think about?, what do you see with you ultra inner eyes? in the midst of tough situations what does your mind tell you?..... you cannot say or dream to hit big and you are a

5 TIPS ON HOW TO LOVE PEOPLE Hello, i am here again and today i ll be discussing my 5 tips on how to love people!    Lot of times its not easy to accept people into our hearts but with these 5 tips am sure you can see things through a different direction. 1 . First love yourself the number one key in loving other people is you having the ability to love your self. how can you love a stranger if u don't love yourself. This helps you to build relationships and maintain them. 2. Acceptance is key yea alot of time we find it difficult accepting people and their flaws but i tell you this is a great step if u want them in your life. acceptance is key irrespective of their races, status or background.... 3 . Beauty to ashes acceptance like i said is key, after accepting a person's flaws it becomes somehow you priority to mold and help them become a better person, someone you will one to be associated with, represented by and communicate with. You know that beautiful feelin

Making decisions that does not affect us is one of the biggest challenge we face every day as humans. come to think of it, am also guilty! Lol. ok back to my story... we humans can be over-zealously selfish!    we can all make corrections in our own little way(even if ur heart is made of superglue)! it doesn't take much to say 'sorry' and definitely does not cost much to say 'I am sorry'. In making amends its the Heart that does the talking, let it today...