MATTERS OF THE HEART

The heart is a very fragile organ of the body. It's that key factor that glues the body system together in coordination. It has to be treated with love and care.
This days, I see so many young adults and adults throwing caution to the wind and bearing it all. I mean there is a saying that says " guide your heart jealously ". The matters of the heart includes:-
1. Heartbreak
2.insufficient love
3. Lack of communication
4. Trust issues
5. Vain gain
6. Lack of affection, Care, attention.

See any relationship without adequate dosage of all these ingredients will eventually hit the rock if not properly handled. I am a pioneer of love. I am a sucker for love. I love love and that's why I pride myself as a good teacher on such topic.
It's not just enough to mouth the words, do more to put these words into action. I think Nigerian men are quite backwards with handling a woman's heart. And I am not saying the woman is a saint, far from it.

See, if a person wants to love you they will choose to. You do not have to force them. It's something they will do genuinely without a sweat and they would treat you right. They do this by:-
1. Placing value on you
2. Being truthful, trustworthy
3. Actually listening to you
4. Know the risk of loosing you ( any one who isn't scared to loose you is not for you)
5. Pamper you, treat you well
6. You are priority to them
7. They make out time from their busy lives for you
8. They do not cheat on you and feel cool about it( RUN)
9. They will sacrifice for your sake
Any man or woman who plays with your heart and feelings like it's a piece of dirty clothe is not meant for you. They will end up ferociously destroying you thereby leaving you empty and bitter at the long run
So I say this to you, be the GUARD of your heart and GUIDE it jealously. Love and be loved back is pretty much the new cool.