THE I LOVE YOU THEOREM

Alot of people go into a relationship with this idea in their heads " he/she said * I love you*. The magic word that melts all mountains in their hearts but how many relationship actually survive and thrive on this theory? Your guess is as good as mine, None.

That he/she sings I love you praise and worship sweet nonsense to your ears should not be the only reason you go into a relationship with them. Take for instance, he/she said I love you and you knowing well he/she is a serial liar and cheat and you starts basking in the euphoria of that word not minding who they really are? I am sorry for your heart. Most times people will say almost about anything just to win you over, that they say the magic word is not enough room for you to DOWNPLAY your STANDARDS. Be wise. Thread with caution. Use your brain. If a person really loves you it should be unquantifiable, without bias. See I have seen and felt enough as an adult to be a judge on such topic and I tell you "I love you" isn't enough. If you love someone, you show them. You listen to them. You let go of other women just to be with one. This days people are busy confusing lust with love. They are both different on every ground.

Young lady, that he says sweet nonsense to you( which can be true) is no reason for you to spread your legs, fling your sense etc. If he really love you he will come for you and if you do not see that happening please detach yourself. It is not a do or die affair. Yes, it is difficult. Yes you will hurt( this process will last as long as you want it to) but I think i'd rather hurt now than miss it. I know this because I am in the centre of it all.